A wake is a gathering where people offer condolences and pay their respects. A viewing is a chance to see the person who died, if the family has arranged one. A funeral service is a farewell ceremony that can include prayers, tributes or other rites. Cremation or burial is a separate part of the arrangements.
Friends and relatives may visit at the times the family has shared. A wake may be held at home, in a funeral parlour or at an approved venue such as an HDB void deck.
The venue, visiting hours and length of the wake vary. The National Environment Agency’s guide to arranging a funeral explains the permits that may apply to the venue and the written permission required for a wake that extends beyond seven days after the date of death.
A viewing can take place during a wake or at another arranged time. If the family offers a viewing, follow their guidance about when and where to approach. You can offer condolences without taking part in the viewing.
The service can take place at the wake venue, a place of worship or another venue chosen for the arrangements. Its timing and who can attend depend on the family’s plans and customs.
Some families choose to arrange a funeral without a wake. A family may also choose to hold a memorial later.
Check the address and visiting hours first. If you intend to attend the funeral service as well, confirm the time, venue and whether it is open to visitors.
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Follow any requests about dress or viewing. If the family has given no dress guidance, our funeral dress code guide covers what to consider.
Share the wake and service details separately, even if both are at the same venue. Include any private arrangements and whether visitors can take part in a viewing.
For the planning sequence, see how to arrange a funeral in Singapore and how soon a funeral can take place.
Yes. A wake is optional. A family can arrange a farewell and cremation or burial without holding a wake, and may choose a memorial later.
No. Check with the family or the funeral director if you need to know whether a viewing has been arranged.
You can pay your respects at the wake during the family’s visiting hours. Check the family’s arrangements before attending the separate service.
Check the time, venue and whether visitors are invited. A service may be private even when the wake is open to visitors.
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